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Experiences at a BBW sex party
Tuesday night, my part-time boyfriend Ben and I were trying to figure out what sex adventure to have. I had told him I wanted to do something besides have sex three times a night and watch movies. I mean, there is nothing wrong with Netflix and chill (and yes ladies, he can easily have sex three times in a night), but we need to add some adventures into our repertoire.
Ben’s suggestions were fun; sex in the car or checking into a motel for sex in a new atmosphere, but we eventually decided to attend a Taco Tuesday sex party geared toward BBW’s. A BBW is a Big Beautiful Woman, for those of you not familiar with the term. A BBW party is especially for all women who consider themselves plus size. In LA, a city where skinnier is often seen as better, it is very affirming to go to a BBW party, to be around other women who are comfortable with their size, and to be around men who enjoy curvy women. And of course, the sex-positive atmosphere is a huge draw.
This party was hosted by an acquaintance of mine who is an award-winning plus-size adult film actress. Kim (not her real name), is lush and sweet, curvy and personable, and works hard to bring people together at her events. Kim and I have had some fun adventures at her parties, and I always enjoy catching up with her. This night, however, was all about Ben, so after a quick hug hello and a…